Traylor and Melody are available to share their painful yet redemptive story of marriage, divorce, and miraculous reconciliation to a variety of audiences. Seminars, conferences, church services, workshops, and retreats are just a few of the ways God is using us to bring hope and encouragement to others. They are also available to help churches, schools, and other organizations educate parents concerning the dangers of today’s technology in order to assist them in raising responsible Digital Citizens. Tray and Melody are also available to speak individually to men’s and women’s events.


These are a few of the topics Traylor and Melody can address with your audience.


Bringing God into the Struggle 

‘Little-Sinner’ vs ‘Big-Sinner’ Paradigm 

Knowing Our Wounds 

Boasting in Weakness 


Fighting Fair

Deadly Secrets

Healing Pain

Dealing with Divorce

Rebuilding Trust

Sex & Intimacy

Out-repenting Spouse


Christ-centered Recovery

Pornography and Sex Addiction

A Theology of Recovery

Grace & Addiction


Raising Responsible Digital Citizens

Parenting in the Age of Social Media

Grace-Based Parenting

Blended Families

Healthy Sexuality


Relaxing Into Our Identity

Affirmation & Significance

True Self vs False Self

Performance Treadmill


Building Safe Community

Healing Community

Being Known

Into Me See


Pornography and Sex Addiction

Understanding Spouse’s Struggle with Pornography

Finding My Voice



Betrayal Trauma

Performance Treadmill


Pornography and Sex Addiction

The Cowardice of Pornography

The Courageous Husband

Jesus Wasn’t A Nice Guy

Married and Engaged

Out-repenting Your Wife

Biblical Masculinity


Marriage Retreats

Parenting Conferences

Women’s Events

Men’s Events

Leadership Conferences

Recovery Conferences

What Others Are Saying

"Seeing both of you together and how well you are handling your situation gives me hope that we too can rebuild trust."

-Marriage Conference Attendee

"I thought the seminar was great and very informative! I could relate so many things to my own marriage! I took a lot away from everything that was discussed!"

-Seminar Attendee

" Thank you for your transparency and willingness to share your story."

-Marriage Conference Attendee

"I appreciate how open and honest you were with your experiences and taking the time to share that with us! "

-Conference Attendee

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