You Are Safe and Not Alone

There is nothing that feels more lonely than walking through the devastation and shock of betrayal trauma. Few experiences create more pain than sexual betrayal whether it is virtual or physical. It’s heart wrenching to know that the person closest to you and is supposed to be safest for you is the source of your pain.

It creates confusion, chaos and an avalanche of emotions that can feel crippling. It also often silences us.

The irony of this is that while one relationship can feel like it breaks us into a million pieces that God brings other relationships to gently mend us back together and heal our broken hearts.

You have been through so much. You matter and your story matters.

There is something powerful when we share our stories with one another. All of a sudden we realize we are not alone.

We are listening…

There Is Life After Your Worst Day

Life Beyond Betrayal is a monthly membership designed to provide a confidential community and an online program for women who have been blindsided by betrayal and/or infidelity.  It is designed to provide a woman with a basic understanding of the very real trauma that accompanies betrayal as well as a strategic plan to heal and keep her moving by addressing three specific stages; Surviving the Trauma Beyond Betrayal, Grieving Beyond Betrayal, and Reclaiming You Beyond Betrayal. It is designed to walk a woman through each step of her healing process following the discovery of betrayal.

This online healing program created by Melody can be done at your own pace as well as not being alone to figure out this process. The confidential community will be a lifeline to provide stories and perspective from other women on this path toward healing. Each lesson is complete with a specific topic and coaching lesson from Melody, devotional, homework, helpful worksheets to process and to journal, music playlists and videos, and more to aid in the healing process. This program helps a woman who may be at the starting point or re-entry point for recovery and healing to take place following betrayal.

I know that betrayal is a sensitive issue. This process is going to stir up thoughts, emotions, and memories. I ask that each individual “trust the process”.  The process of healing is not a quick fix formula and my goal is to provide a safe place to validate the pain caused by what you have been through. This course provides educational content to better understand the nature of betrayal as well as a course of treatment for betrayal and relationship trauma. Click the link below to get 3 free videos Melody has put together to validate you pain help you heal.

From Our Podcast

Women's Intensive

You are not alone.

This 3-day intensive is designed to help women understand the nature of what they are going through, validate and give voice to the disturbing emotions and the trauma symptoms following betrayal as well as putting a healing framework together.  We will spend consolidated time working through the following information so that you don’t have to be taken out or get stuck on this healing journey:

  • Explain the basics of Betrayal Trauma & PTSD symptoms
  • Understanding Pornography & Sex Addiction
  • Deception: Why it hurts so bad
  • Identifying Loss & Working through Negative Emotions
  • Obstacles to Healing
  • Surviving Shame: Lies vs. Truth
  • Next Steps & Practical Tools

This healing intensive is 3 days and consists of 20 hours of 1-on-1 time with Melody, a certified life and recovery coach.

Attendees will gain access to Melody’s monthly membership, Life Beyond Betrayal that will provide on-going course work as well as access to an online community of women.

Because these intensives are 1-on-1 with Melody and are booked on a first-come, first-served basis, please click the link below.

Work With Melody

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Release Group Coaching
Life Beyond Betrayal

Our Podcast

Undone Redone is Tray and Melody’s weekly podcast where they interview Philip Yancey, Randy Alcorn, Steve Brown, Dan Allender, John Lynch, William Paul Young, Michael John Cusick, Nate Larkin, Elyse Fitzpatrick, and many others about marriage, grace, recovery, and the wonderfully scandalous Gospel. The Undone Redone podcast talks the messiness of life…addiction and infidelity…grace and reconciliation…marriage and family…authenticity and faith. Tray and Mel are a couple that know a thing or two about messy and who are thrilled that their divorce did not work out!

The buttons below link to 3 podcast episodes that speak specifically to what a betrayed spouse is going through. Also, make sure you subscribe so that you do not miss an episode!


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