Dating Wisdom from Shrek

Recently read a cynic’s perspective on dating and it got me to thinking…I think it is essential to define the purpose of dating before getting too deep into whether dating must be a “game” or not. All of us were created with a longing for true intimacy…to be loved completely and totally by another individual…warts […]

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Distant or Dirty Child?

Not long after my divorce, I was sitting in church one Sunday morning and my pastor told a story that rocked me. I started weeping immediately. My pastor has a friend who has a young son. The young boy loves his sandbox in the backyard, but he has very sensitive eyes. A few times as […]

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Healing Pain

My journey over the past five years has been an exhilarating and painful one. I know firsthand that pain is necessary for true healing to take place. I also know that I don’t like pain, so I avoid it, and prolong my own healing. Slowly but surely I’m learning to embrace pain rather than run […]

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