IMPACTING MEN
Our culture is facing a crisis of masculinity.
We are making a difference one man at a time.
Genesis chapter 3 describes mankind’s dilemma after the Fall and our need for a Savior. This same chapter also clearly communicates God’s plan to redeem man to Himself through the Gospel.
Our ministry is built on the firm belief that individuals cannot change through mere willpower or simply learning Biblical principles and trying to carry them out. We believe that change takes place within community as we take the Gospel of Jesus Christ more deeply into our understanding and into our hearts. This process is a journey and not a quick-fix formula.
Men Need More Community,
Not Accountability.
By clinical definition, sexual addiction is an intimacy disorder. As a result, lasting heart-change around this issue does not take place in isolation, but in the context of genuine, transparent community.
Route1520 Recovery Groups offer a safe place for individuals to find support, care, direction, and prayer in community with fellow strugglers. One of the dangers of sex addiction is the secrecy that results when we buy into the lie that we are alone in our struggle with sexual sin. The shame which drives addiction begins to dissipate as individuals allow themselves to be fully known by other members of the group. Our groups provide authentic, transparent community and open discussion around the deep heart issues that drive destructive behavior.
Interested in starting a Christ-centered recovery group? We offer training and a comprehensive strategy for starting and growing Christ-centered recovery groups that deal with sexual brokenness.
Our 4-Day Intensive For Men
Dealing With Sexual Addiction
The EMBARK Men’s Recovery Intensive is a four-day event held at Shocco Springs Retreat Center in Talladega, AL designed to provide a jumpstart for a man’s recovery journey. The EMBARK Men’s Recovery Intensive focuses specifically on sexual addiction and involves a comprehensive approach to healing that goes beyond the acting out behavior and gets to the root issues that are driving the unwanted behavior.
Attendees of the intensive are divided into small groups and work with licensed counselors who are specifically trained in treating sexual addiction. A limited number of scholarships are available for those who qualify and payment plans are available upon request. Space is limited to 18 participants, so register now!
Video Resources
From Orphan To Beloved Son
Watch Tray's Teaching on 'The Essential Shift'
Moving from an orphan mindset to the understanding that we are beloved sons…the ‘Essential Shift’…is the core tenet of Undone Redone’s discipleship model. Shame is the fuel that drives unwanted, addictive behavior, and, unfortunately, it is often used as an attempt to dissuade bad behavior. But any attempt to shame away bad behavior only leads to more bad behavior…like pouring gas on the fire.
Our orphan spirituality also leads to all kinds of hiding and mask-wearing due to the fact we incorrectly believe that “good” Christians are supposed to sin less and less the more we walk with Jesus. As Tray points out in this Essential Shift video, resting in our true identity as beloved sons allows us to deal honestly with our brokenness.
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What People Are Saying
Every once in a while you stumble across one of those rare, transparent individuals that has nothing left to hide. And because they have nothing left to hide, they are safe. More than safe, they are dangerously safe. Traylor Lovvorn is one of those dangerously safe souls. A lion and a lamb lives inside this man. His life is a dramatic tale of brokenness and betrayal. From this broken place, a brave heart rose from the ashes. When a man has nothing left to hide or lose, he is free. If you seek freedom from stubborn sin and shame, Traylor knows the ancient path to the Savior. He found the cure for his wandering and wounded heart that helped me find home and healing in Christ. You never forget the face of those who rescue you. Traylor is an unforgettable man that will help you forget who you once were to remember who you really are. When you do, you’ll never be the same. Unchangeable circumstances changes character. As your character changes, who you are when no one is looking becomes the image of Christ everyone seeks. I see the beautifully broken and brave image of Christ in Traylor. I believe you will too.
Kevin DeVries ,
Author, Mountaineer
“We had the privilege of having Tray and Melody minister to our entire church family over a weekend conference. Not only do they have a wonderful story of redemption but it comes with a theology, resources, curriculum and love. They have developed a deep understanding of the human heart and the gospel of Christ. Probably what impressed me most was their interaction with staff, congregants and leaders when the lights and mics weren’t on. They were filled with grace, truth and understanding. I highly recommend Tray and Melody to help minister to your church.”
Andy Lewis ,
Pastor
Tray and Melody are bringing much needed authenticity and healing to the church. The Undone Redone Marriage Conference is unique in that it creates an ongoing community of support and life change among your congregation. Their story is an amazing example of the gospel at work and gives men and women tangible hope for their future.
Jeff Murphy ,
Pastor
Undone Redone takes the road less traveled: an authentic path to wholeness and recovery that avoids quick fixes and the seductive belief that both can be achieved without the power and grace of God.
Paul Coughlin ,
Author
Undone Redone/Route1520 cuts holes in the darkness of one of the most ominous threats to peoples’ hearts and lives of our day. There are many behavioral approaches out there that will simply tell people to “stop sinning and all will be well”. Undone Redone/Route1520 gets beyond and behind the behavioral elements of sin and addresses the heart.
Bob Flayhart ,
Pastor
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Phone: 877-200-1520
130 Inverness Plaza, #190
Birmingham, Alabama 35242 USA
info@undoneredone.com