PROTECTING OUR CHILDREN
Grace-Based Parenting In Our Digital Age
Technology is one of the few areas that children already know more than their parents on a topic. Due to this dynamic, many parents do not engage with their children effectively when it comes to technology, leaving children to navigate this landscape alone. MySecureFamily strives to provide a space for parents to gain knowledge and understanding surrounding technology and how they can better protect their children in the digital generation.
Bring the MySecureFamily Seminar To Your Church
My Secure Family seminar helps equip and educate parents on how to better shepherd the hearts of their kids in the digital age. In this seminar, Tray and Melody Lovvorn help parents understand the constantly changing technological terrain so that they can step into this important space and shepherd their child’s heart effectively. Parents will learn about the latest apps, social media sites, and video games and will be given practical steps to create a safe technological environment for children in the home. They will also discuss how to facilitate healthy and ongoing conversations with your kids surrounding sex and pornography and how to navigate this with safety, truth and grace.
This seminar is a 3 hour seminar for any parent, grandparent, school administrator, or ministry leader who is interested in protecting the innocence of children in our digital world.
Gospel Sexuality Conference
Today’s culture is continually promoting an ‘anything-goes’ understanding of sexuality to our children. As parents we desire to see our kids grow up without the shame and ongoing pressure of living in this pornified culture. Our responsibility as parents to protect and prepare our kids has never been harder or more important. This conference covers the complex issues of sexuality, how to communicate with your kids that they are image bearers of God, and how to facilitate conversations with your kids about their experiences with regard to sexuality. Tray and Melody will bring their personal experience in raising four children as well as share concepts and testimonials from other professionals in this space.
This conference is a two day conference for any parent, grandparent, school administrator, or ministry leader who is interested in protecting and equipping the next generation.
Join Us For Open Your Purse
September 12, 2019 at the Grand Bohemian Hotel
Come join us at our 2nd Annual Open Your Purse event, Thursday, September 12, 2019, at the Grand Bohemian Hotel in Mountain Brook, AL The first annual Open Your Purse welcomed more than 200 of Birmingham’s most influential and fashion-conscious philanthropists and featured over 55 designer purses that were auctioned off to benefit Undone Redone’s MySecureFamily initiative. This family initiative helps equip parents and grandparents in protecting and inoculating their children facing the dangers of today’s technology.
Undone Redone is Tray and Melody’s weekly podcast where they interview Philip Yancey, Randy Alcorn, Steve Brown, Dan Allender, John Lynch, William Paul Young, Michael John Cusick, Nate Larkin, Elyse Fitzpatrick, and many others about marriage, grace, recovery, and the wonderfully scandalous Gospel. The Undone Redone podcast talks the messiness of life…addiction and infidelity…grace and reconciliation…marriage and family…authenticity and faith. Tray and Mel are a couple that know a thing or two about messy and who are thrilled that their divorce did not work out!
The buttons below link to 3 podcast episodes that speak specifically to what a betrayed spouse is going through. Also, make sure you subscribe so that you do not miss an episode!
What People Are Saying
The Perfectly Imperfect Marriage Conference led by Tray and Melody Lovvorn was one of the best and most thorough marriage resources we’ve brought to our church. The combination of their courageous and yet humble sharing of their redemptive story and their wonderfully gifted communication of the Gospel, biblical wisdom and practical insights into marriage is fantastic. In a world of increasing sexual brokenness, Tray and Melody’s testimony and teaching are needed. Your church would benefit from the challenges, advice and solid Biblical teaching being offered by the Undone Redone Ministry.
Ross Langford ,
Every once in a while you stumble across one of those rare, transparent individuals that has nothing left to hide. And because they have nothing left to hide, they are safe. More than safe, they are dangerously safe. Traylor Lovvorn is one of those dangerously safe souls. A lion and a lamb lives inside this man. His life is a dramatic tale of brokenness and betrayal. From this broken place, a brave heart rose from the ashes. When a man has nothing left to hide or lose, he is free. If you seek freedom from stubborn sin and shame, Traylor knows the ancient path to the Savior. He found the cure for his wandering and wounded heart that helped me find home and healing in Christ. You never forget the face of those who rescue you. Traylor is an unforgettable man that will help you forget who you once were to remember who you really are. When you do, you’ll never be the same. Unchangeable circumstances changes character. As your character changes, who you are when no one is looking becomes the image of Christ everyone seeks. I see the beautifully broken and brave image of Christ in Traylor. I believe you will too.
Kevin DeVries ,
We had the privilege of having Tray and Melody minister to our entire church family over a weekend conference. Not only do they have a wonderful story of redemption but it comes with a theology, resources, curriculum and love. They have developed a deep understanding of the human heart and the gospel of Christ. Probably what impressed me most was their interaction with staff, congregants and leaders when the lights and mics weren’t on. They were filled with grace, truth and understanding. I highly recommend Tray and Melody to help minister to your church.
Andy Lewis ,
Tray and Melody are bringing much needed authenticity and healing to the church. The Undone Redone Marriage Conference is unique in that it creates an ongoing community of support and life change among your congregation. Their story is an amazing example of the gospel at work and gives men and women tangible hope for their future.
Jeff Murphy ,
Undone Redone takes the road less traveled: an authentic path to wholeness and recovery that avoids quick fixes and the seductive belief that both can be achieved without the power and grace of God.
Paul Coughlin ,
Undone Redone/Route1520 cuts holes in the darkness of one of the most ominous threats to peoples’ hearts and lives of our day. There are many behavioral approaches out there that will simply tell people to “stop sinning and all will be well”. Undone Redone/Route1520 gets beyond and behind the behavioral elements of sin and addresses the heart.
Bob Flayhart ,
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