Tray and Melody’s Bio:
Tray and Melody had been married for 11 years when Tray’s secret struggle with pornography and sexual sin ripped their family apart. After 6 years of divorce, God brought about a miraculous restoration and they reconciled and have been remarried for almost 9 years. Discovering that true healing is found on the other side of pain, Tray and Melody have a passion to help men, women, and families experience God’s grace in brokenness and to learn to connect deeply with others in authentic community.
Tray and Melody are sought after speakers and teachers on the subjects of marriage, parenting, sexual addiction, and betrayal trauma, and God’s wonderfully scandalous grace. Through Undone Redone, their Birmingham-based non-profit and weekly podcast, Tray and Melody provide life and marriage coaching, recovery intensives, parenting solutions, and help churches establish Christ-centered recovery groups.
They live in Birmingham, AL with their four children and ferocious Peekapoo, Toto.
Tray’s Bio:
Tray had been married for 11 years when Tray’s secret struggle with pornography and sexual sin ripped their family apart. After 6 years of divorce, God brought about a miraculous restoration and they reconciled and remarried. Discovering that true healing is found on the other side of pain, Tray has a passion to help men experience God’s grace in brokenness and to learn to connect deeply with others in authentic community.
Through Undone Redone, his ministry and weekly podcast that he does with his wife Melody, he provides life and marriage coaching, intensives, parenting solutions, and help churches create Christ-centered recovery groups.
Tray contributes regularly to LifeWay’s Stand Firm devotional magazine for men, Love Like Jesus, and the Covenant Eyes’ blog.
Melody’s Bio:
A graduate of Samford University with a degree in music education and vocal performance, Melody was a music teacher for years before deciding to raise her children and enjoy teaching fitness for the past 21 years. Melody uncovered her husband’s betrayal in 2000, and has lived through the nightmare of having her family torn apart when her children were 5, 4, 2, and 6 months. After walking her own path of healing and wholeness, Melody and her ex-husband Tray were remarried in 2008. Along with Tray, Melody has been devoted to personally coaching and walking with others who are currently living through the pain and trauma of their partner’s betrayal. She has been committed to encouraging and walking with women for the past seven years and offers hope to betrayed spouses that there is life after their worst day. She is passionate about facilitating a weekly women’s group, educating and creating awareness to students, families and communities on prevention, protecting children in the digital age, and healthy sexuality. She also spends time building relationships with at risk women and sex trafficked victims. Melody enjoys singing, leading worship, entertaining friends, and spending time with her family.
