Traylor and Melody are available to share their painful yet redemptive story of marriage, divorce, and miraculous reconciliation to a variety of audiences. Seminars, conferences, church services, workshops, and retreats are just a few of the ways God is using us to bring hope and encouragement to others. They are also available to help churches, schools, and other organizations educate parents concerning the dangers of today’s technology in order to assist them in raising responsible Digital Citizens. Tray and Melody are also available to speak individually to men’s and women’s events.


These are a few of the topics Traylor and Melody can address with your audience.


Bringing God into the Struggle 

‘Little-Sinner’ vs ‘Big-Sinner’ Paradigm 

Knowing Our Wounds 

Boasting in Weakness 


Fighting Fair

Deadly Secrets

Healing Pain

Dealing with Divorce

Rebuilding Trust

Sex & Intimacy

Out-repenting Spouse


Christ-centered Recovery

Pornography and Sex Addiction

A Theology of Recovery

Grace & Addiction


Raising Responsible Digital Citizens

Parenting in the Age of Social Media

Grace-Based Parenting

Blended Families

Healthy Sexuality


Relaxing Into Our Identity

Affirmation & Significance

True Self vs False Self

Performance Treadmill


Building Safe Community

Healing Community

Being Known

Into Me See


Pornography and Sex Addiction

Understanding Spouse’s Struggle with Pornography

Finding My Voice



Betrayal Trauma

Performance Treadmill


Pornography and Sex Addiction

The Cowardice of Pornography

The Courageous Husband

Jesus Wasn’t A Nice Guy

Married and Engaged

Out-repenting Your Wife

Biblical Masculinity

What Others Are Saying

“The Perfectly Imperfect Marriage Conference led by Tray and Melody Lovvorn was one of the best and most thorough marriage resources we’ve brought to our church. The combination of their courageous and yet humble sharing of their redemptive story and their wonderfully gifted communication of the Gospel, biblical wisdom and practical insights into marriage is fantastic. In a world of increasing sexual brokenness, Tray and Melody’s testimony and teaching are needed. Your church would benefit from the challenges, advice and solid Biblical teaching being offered by Undone Redone.” 

- Dr. Ross Langford, Associate Pastor, First Baptist Church of Pensacola, FL

“Tray and Melody share their grace journey with humility and transparency. Their challenge to ‘take off our mask’ and be ‘stewards of our scars’ is precisely what we need to embrace to enjoy authentic, Christ-honoring marriages. You will be encouraged tremendously by hearing their story!”

- Chad and Kristi Hall, Bellevue Baptist Church, Memphis TN

Melody and Traylor bring hope and energy to people seeking help on one of the most challenging experiences of our day, the impact of out-of-control sexual behavior on relationships and families. They are warm and gracious people and a delight to work with. Any event planner can be confident that inviting the Lovvorns will ensure a successful event!

- Vauna Davis, Executive Director of Utah Coalition Against Pornography

"Seeing both of you together and how well you are handling your situation gives me hope that we too can rebuild trust."

- Marriage Conference Attendee

"Open and real, yet lovable, kind and inspiring." 

- Conference Attendee

"They spoke right to the heart. I could relate to them. Honest and genuine." 

- Conference Attendee

"Love that this couple weren't coming from the place of being better than everyone. They gave hope. FANTASTIC."

- Conference Attendee


Marriage Retreats

Parenting Conferences

Women’s Events

Men’s Events

Leadership Conferences

Recovery Conferences